Breastfeeding is definitely on top of every mom’s “Most Difficult Thing I’ve Ever Done” slash “Most Painful Life Experience” list. It demands so much physical and emotional energy and getting used to. But as if that’s not enough, breastfeeding moms also have to deal with the anxiety of nursing in public. We’re talking about the judgmental glances and the downright stares from both people you know and don’t. In celebration of Breastfeeding Month, we’re starting an important conversation because every nursing mom needs to feel that they can safely breastfeed in public. So, Dear Judgmental Starer, this one is for you.